Should You Double Text Her? Why Waiting Wins
Should you double text her? No. When a girl goes quiet on a dating app or messaging app, treat it as a test of your patience and don't send another message. The only exception is one light follow-up after at least four days.
Key takeaway: restless double texting makes you look needy. Keep your cool, trust the process, and if she hasn't answered your question after a minimum of four days, send one playful line like "Thinking hard I see..." with an emoji.
Why shouldn't you double text a girl who's gone quiet?
If you want to have a chance with girls, this is advice you need to follow: don't double text, because her silence could be a test.
When you're texting with a girl on a dating or messaging app and she goes quiet, always treat it as a test of your patience. Sometimes girls deliberately make you wait to see if you come unglued.
Why does she test your patience?
Every girl has had bad experiences with needy or insecure men. Finding out whether you're one of them helps her avoid another bad experience.
You won't always know the real reason she's gone quiet, and you don't need to. Whatever the reason, always treat it as a test. That keeps you calm and consistent, whatever is going on at her end.
What does not double texting show her?
Restless double texting makes you look needy. So keep your cool and trust the process. When you don't obsessively double text, you show her that:
You're a busy guy.
She can't diminish you.
You probably have other options.
So should you double text her at all?
Yes, but only if you give it a long time. A follow-up an hour after your last message is exactly the restless double text that makes you look needy. Here's how I'd do it instead:
Only follow up when she hasn't answered a question you've asked.
Wait a minimum of four days.
Then send something light, like "Thinking hard I see..." with an emoji.
And once she does reply, here's how I'd ask a girl out over text without actually asking.
Common questions
Should I double text a girl who hasn't replied?
Not straight away. Treat her silence as a test of your patience, and if she hasn't answered a question you asked, wait a minimum of four days before sending one more message.
Why do girls make you wait for a reply?
Sometimes girls deliberately make you wait to see if you come unglued. Every girl has had bad experiences with needy or insecure men, and finding out whether you're one of them helps her avoid another.
What should I text if she hasn't replied in four days?
Send something light, like "Thinking hard I see..." with an emoji. It's one calm follow-up rather than a restless chase.
When she goes quiet, your job is simple: show her you're not one of the needy, insecure men she's had bad experiences with. Keep your cool and trust the process.
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